Your Questions About Matchmaking
John asks…
What are the best Arab matchmaking sites?
I would like to know from people’s personal experiences, what are the best matchmaking sites for dating and making friendships with other Arab and Middle Eastern men and woman? What sites have you found to be helpful, fun and worth your time?
answers:
The best Free Arab dating sites:
http://www.arabelove.com
http://www.arabfaces.com
http://www.kellonaseeb.com
http://www.lovelyarab.com’
Not free, pay monthly charge:
http://www.arablounge.com
http://www.arabmatchmaking.com
http://www.arabium.com
One point you need to keep in mind is that the three paying Arab dating sites are total money milking schemes. They offer extremely limited service or worst yet, offer you nothing, unless you shell out a premium…who the heck is gonna pay $30 and $39 a month to “maybe” (emphasis on the maybe) find a soul mate– not to mention, using services that are essentially free all over the web (messaging, profile viewing, flirting applications etc)!!!!
Arabmatchmaking.com from what I’ve experienced, is the biggest offender, as they completely cripple your ability to do anything or send any messages unless you shell out a monthly $34.95 charge.
To add to that, again from my experience, the website’s administrators arbitrarily delete and “remove” sections of your profile for no particular reason (and I’m not talking about offensive things, just basic “culturally friendly” profile blurbs) that is–if you’re not a “Platinum” member.
Every time I changed something on my profile they would cut off more and by the end of it I had approximately two lines left of my profile–leaving it disjointed and grammatically incorrect.
Also if you don’t want to throw your money away on these paying sites, good luck with contacting anyone you find attractive on the site. With Arabmatchmaking, all you can do is send endless “winks” (free) but have no info to contact each other (not allowed to put emails or contact info in you profile) and no way to send a message. How the #bleep*# is that supposed to be a matchmaking opportunity?
They also try the typical money making trap of having some
“ok” looking girls and guys, constantly popping up using that same old tired lines “you look pretty cool, wanna chat?” and of course when you click on the pop up it brings you right to a credit card page, that you must pay, otherwise no messaging. It’s a waste of time where you must enter your personal credit card info. Hopefully one day they will change their business model to reflect the current times.
Think–Facebook, imagine if you had to pay a monthly fee to make friends online with Facebook, Myspace or any other social networking site??!
Stick to the free Arab dating and friendship sites and you’ll have a lot of fun making friends and getting to know interesting people around the world. Arabs guys and gals rock!!!
Betty asks…
If I put an external harddrive on my xbox can I do firefight matchmaking?
I bought the 4gb one to since I figured you can get a terabyte drive for the $100 extra instead. But today when I tried to do firefight matchmaking they siad I needed a hard drive… If I put on the external drive will I be able to play firefight matchmaking?
answers:
Yes
Mark asks…
What are all of the different medals you can get during matchmaking in halo 3?
I am looking for ALL of the different medals you can achieve during matchmaking on Halo 3. I know all the basics like double kill and melee and small stuff like that. But looking on bungie.net it gives you all those rows and then there are so many that ar blank! I guess I just want a list of ALL of the different medals to achieve. I am really interested in what the medal next to steaktacular is!!!
answers:
The one next to steaktacular is Linktacular! You have to play in a matchmade game comprised of all Bungie.net users.
Double Kill!
Kill 2 opponents within 4 seconds of the previous kill.
Triple Kill!
Kill 3 opponents within 4 seconds of the previous kill.
Overkill!
Kill 4 opponents within 4 seconds of the previous kill.
Killtacular!
Kill 5 opponents within 4 seconds of the previous kill.
Killtrocity!
Kill 6 opponents within 4 seconds of the previous kill.
Killamanjaro!
Kill 7 opponents within 4 seconds of the previous kill.
Killtastrophe!
Kill 8 opponents within 4 seconds of the previous kill.
Killapocalypse!
Kill 9 opponents within 4 seconds of the previous kill.
Killionaire!
Kill 10 opponents within 4 seconds of the previous kill.
Bungie.net ONLY!
Linktacular!
Play in a matchmade game comprised of all Bungie.net users.
Steaktacular!
Luke owes you a steak dinner. (Win a game of matchmaking by more than 25 points)
Sprees!
Killing Spree!
Kill 5 opponents in a row without dying.
Killing Frenzy!
Kill 10 opponents in a row without dying.
Running Riot!
Kill 15 opponents in a row without dying.
Rampage!
Kill 20 opponents in a row without dying.
Untouchable!
Kill 25 opponents in a row without dying.
Invincible!
Kill 30 opponents in a row without dying.
Splatter Spree!
Splatter 5 opponents in a row with a vehicle without dying.
Slice ‘N Dice!
Kill 10 opponents in a row with a sword without dying.
Infection Spree!
Kill 5 humans in a row as the zombie without dying.
Mmmm Brains!
Kill 10 humans in a row as the zombie without dying.
Zombie Killing Spree!
Kill 5 zombies in a row as the human without dying.
Hell’s Janitor!
Kill 10 zombies in a row as the human without dying.
Weapon Specific Kills!
Sniper Kill!
Kill an opponent with a Sniper Rifle or the Beam Rifle.
Sniper Spree!
Kill 5 opponents in a row with a sniper weapon without dying.
Sharpshooter!
Kill 10 opponents in a row with a sniper weapon without dying.
Incineration!
Kill an opponent with a flame-based weapon.
Vehicular Manslaughter!
Splatter 10 opponents in a row with a vehicle without dying.
Shotgun Spree!
Kill 5 opponents in a row with the shotgun without dying.
Open Season!
Kill 10 opponents in a row with the shotgun without dying.
Assassin!
Hit and kill an opponent with a melee attack from behind.
Beat Down!
Hit and kill an opponent with a melee attack.
Grenade Stick!
Kill an opponent by sticking them with a sticky or brute grenade.
Laser Kill!
Get an opponent with the Spartan Laser.
Sword Spree!
Kill 5 opponents in a row with a sword without dying.
Objectives
Flag Score!
Score the flag in CTF.
Flag Kill!
Get a melee kill with the flag.
Killed Flag Carrier!
Kill the opponent flag carrier in CTF.
Bomb Planted!
Plant the bomb in Assault.
Killed Bomb Carrier!
Kill an opponent bomb carrier in Assault.
Oddball Kill!
Get a melee kill when holding the oddball.
Killed VIP!
Kill an opponent’s VIP in a VIP game.
Killed Juggernaut!
Kill the Juggernaut in a Juggernaut game.
Juggernaut Spree!
Kill 5 opponents in a row as the Juggernaut without dying.
Unstoppable!
Kill 10 opponents in a row as the Juggernaut without dying.
Vehicle Kills
Hijacker!
Board a vehicle.
Skyjacker!
Board a vehicle in midair.
Splatter!
Hit and kill an opponent with a vehicle.
Wheelman!
Be the driver of a vehicle when a passenger kills an opponent.
Miscellaneous
Extermination!
Get an overkill on an opposing team that results in all of the team being dead.
Killjoy!
End an opponent`s killing spree – any spree.
Last Man Standing!
Be the last human in an infection game.
Death from the Grave!
Kill an opponent after you have died.
Perfection!
Win a slayer game with a score of 15 kills or more without dying.
Hail to the King!
Kill 5 opponents in a row from inside the hill before it moves.
Bulltrue!
Killed an opponent that was in the act of a sword lunge.
Thomas asks…
It says im connected to xbox live but when I go on matchmaking?
Whenvever i on my xbox, It automatically signs in on my account and it says it signs in on xbox live. but when I go on halo 3 matchmaking, It says I have to connect to xbox live. So i have to sign in and out every time . this only happens on halo 3 ?
answers:
Yeah this happens to me too. The only thing I’m aware of that you can do is just set your profile so that it doesn’t sign you onto Xbox Live automatically. Then just sign into your account manually.
To set it so you don’t sign on automatically:
AFTER you sign into your profile > Open up the Xbox Guide > Scroll to the Settings tab on the far right > Select Profile > Auto Sign-In
Sharon asks…
In Halo Reach i was temporarily banned from matchmaking because of quitting but it was my internet connection?
How do i get unbanned i can still play custom games and have x box live connection i was just banned from matchmaking how can i fix this. Will restarting my router work? Maybe changing my ip address and if so how would i change my ip address.
answers:
Why don’t you just wait the 15 minutes that the ban is for? Bungie only gives a 15 minute ban for quitting in any form excessively.
Edit: And yes, Bungie can temporarily ban you from their online services, and have implemented a feature to do so in Halo Reach. Exit from a game too many times, and you will be slapped with a 15 minute ban.
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Your Questions About Spokeo
Chris asks…
any good “FREE” people searches?
i like spokeo but its not up to date and im looking for my father but i have to pay money to use the people searches can someone please help me
answers:
Facebook lol. I dont know
Laura asks…
Internet help……………..?
Internet help……………..?
is there a website that can show me what websites my friends on my yahoo list goes to like myspace or facebook like if they have an account there or they signed up to something new. I already know about Spokeo but i want something new. If u don’t know don’t answer also if you think this question is stupid then dont and act smart with me if u don’t like my question just don’t answer it.
answers:
Well, not really. Technically no anyways. 1. Try asking them. LOL
2. Try looking for links or any mention of websites on sites you KNOW that they go on.
3. Try searching sites you go on for them.
4. If you stumble across a site that gives out such information and isn’t them giving it out, your friends have info being given out on the web, meaning tell them.
Lisa asks…
what does this symbol mean?
its like boxes with number in them like this on….
http://www.spokeo.com/blog/?page_id=177
answers:
They’re boxes because your computer isn’t set up to read Chinese correctly. Here’s a picture of the site, so you can see the characters: http://img395.imageshack.us/img395/3791/chinesesiteaf9.jpg
To learn how to set up your computer to read East Asian languages, go here:
Windows XP: http://newton.uor.edu/Departments&Programs/AsianStudiesDept/Language/asianlanguageinstallation_XP.html
Windows Vista: http://newton.uor.edu/Departments&Programs/AsianStudiesDept/Language/vista.html
Sandy asks…
internet help……………..?
is there a website that can show me what websites my friends on my yahoo list goes to like myspace or facebook like if they have an account there or they signed up to something new. I already know about Spokeo but i want something new. If u don’t know don’t answer also if you think this question is stupid then dont and act smart with me if u don’t like my question just don’t answer it.
Thank you
answers:
Like del.icio.us?
Ruth asks…
Tracking an email address back to sites?
Ok so I misspelt something on a search and it came up find cheaters.. Soooo I clicked it and it came up to spokeo .. And then I typed my fiancé’s email address and a name. Came up a screen name and it said there were dating sites he was on and networks and such but I have to pay to see them ): is there any way I can find out the dating sites he’s on? Or something like spokeo?? Idk
It’s not a scam because I used it to search myself up and my real profile came right up
answers:
Simply enter the e-mail address in question on Google and see the results. Websites which offer more “advanced services” in this matter are all a scam. They do not have access to the e-mail addresses which are registered at dating websites. They only state so to trick people into paying.
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Your Questions About Match.com Search
Sharon asks…
Match.com can they see I viewed their profile?
If I’m not logged into my match.com account but do a search for a screenname can they see I viewed them. Or not since I’m not logged in.
answers:
I don’t think so
Susan asks…
What’s up with the dude who runs out at the end of the match.com commercial?
There is a commercial airing for match.com, which profiles a user named LaSirene7. She is rollerskating back and forth in front of the camera and almost falls. At the end, there is some guy who magically appears behind her and then runs off screen. Is it just a trick to make Tivo users watch the spot? It’s weird and annoying. You can see it on Youtube if you search LaSirene7.
answers:
Very Odd. Very very very very
Sandy asks…
What would you do if you saw your friends husband’s profile on match.com?
I got it through the “Daily 5″, I was not searching for him.
answers:
Hmmm.. Tell her what you’ve seen.. Be a good friend
Mark asks…
What’s the deal with the guy at the end of the LaSirene7 Match.com commercial?
There is a commercial airing for match.com, which profiles a user named LaSirene7. She is rollerskating back and forth in front of the camera and almost falls. At the end, there is some guy who magically appears behind her and then runs off screen. Is it just a trick to make Tivo users watch the spot? It’s weird and annoying. You can see it on Youtube if you search LaSirene7.
One person answered this last time I asked and they agreed it was very odd. Watch the spot and tell me it ain’t weird:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eEDn-BQuAUI
answers:
Yeah it is odd.
James asks…
how do i use match.com?
on match.com i’m in the u.k…how do i search for someone in the us who wants someone in a different country or e.g within 5000 miles of where ever they live
answers:
Ask
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Your Questions About Spokeo
Susan asks…
Can I stop places like Spokeo & MyLife from showing private info?
I’m noticing that private info is now being made public for everyone. Sites like Spokeo & MyLife are springing up and showing personal info – age, home value, relatives, even email address in some cases. Why is this suddenly happening? Is there any way to stop my info from appearing on these sites? Is it legal?
answers:
I have had some experience with Spokeo. I think there is a link on their site to ask them about taking your info down.
Lizzie asks…
jassi willson can find her on spokeo .is she a scaamer?
met a person named jassi willson on Facebook . Can’t find anything about her on Spokeo or white pages.com. Ask for some money to give to her sister in Chicago. Has sent pictures of her sisters and her son. Has a hidden yahoo profile.
answers:
Can you spell scam? S-C-A-M. SCAM.
James asks…
Having a Reunion. What is the best people search engine for locating old classmates?
We are having our 35th reunion this year.
I put together a data base from Spokeo, for our old classmates.
Many of the Save the Date Cards have come back.
I would like to try a different company to see if I can find some different address’s for them.
Can anyone recommend a site?
answers:
Here are a couple you can try:
http://www.advancedbackgroundchecks.com/
This is a new site that offers some people search information for free.
Http://www.peoplefinders.com/
You can start a membership on this site and do all the searches you want.
Good luck finding everyone and planning your reunion!
Mark asks…
What would you do if you found your spouse had an account on a website for dating?
I was suspicious and made an account on spokeo.com. Through spokeo.com I found my wife has an account on myyearbook.com (which sounds nice, but it’s a site for dating & hooking up). What would you do?
answers:
I would just ignore it,She has done nothing more than using a social site, no different to Friends Reunited or FB.
William asks…
Personal information privacy, cellphone numbers?
How can someone that does not know you at all get your full name and possibly more information just from knowing your number? For example, you text someone but use the wrong number, they get your information when wondering who contacted them.
Is there some alternate Spokeo-type website that provides the full names of people just by filling in their phone number or maybe the person’s service provider gave them that information? Wouldn’t that be illegal?
Someone please clarify this for me. Thank you.
answers:
1: How can someone that does not know you at all get your full name and possibly more information just from knowing your number?
Through Phishing E-mails. These are E-mail where the sender claims to be a representative of a company where you may have an account. They often have a link to a duplicate site that looks official. NEVER reply to these E-mails. Legitimate companies do NOT ask clients/customers for personal information such as account numbers, passwords, name. Address, etc through an E-Mail
2: For example, you text someone but use the wrong number, they get your information when wondering who contacted them.
Is there some alternate Spokeo-type website that provides the full names of people just by filling in their phone number or maybe the person’s service provider gave them that information?
There are websites that offer Reverse Look-up for telephone numbers. You enter the full telephone number and click Look-up/Go/etc and the sites collects information on that telephone number. Often it can give you the Name, Full Address, Age, Sex, and other information of the person to whom that telephone is registered.
3: Wouldn’t that be illegal?
It is not Illegal everywhere.
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Your Questions About Dating Tips For Introverts
George asks…
Men and women: can you suggest a good “dating strategy”?
I feel like men are more strategic and practical in their approach to dating than women are, and I admire that. Most single men I know always have several women “in rotation” until they decide who they want to be with. I feel that I lack a “dating strategy”, and just like when you lack a strategy in other areas of your life, without a plan, things just tend to kinda “happen”. I’m all for meeting people just by chance, but feel like I need to be way more proactive if I want an active dating life.
So what’s a good strategy for a woman to go about dating? I’m an introvert so you might want to take that into consideration. Do you recommend certain types of places? Going out a certain number of times per week?
Any flirting tips? Tips on balancing the act of showing interest to someone you’re dating while not coming off as always available or desperate for attention?
Any/all advice is welcome and if you wanna share how you go out dating, feel free. I’m interested in being one of those people that is dating 2-3 good “relationship candidates” at any given point in time. I’ve seen it be done but just don’t know how to do it myself!
signed,
creative_mind aka “getting back into the swing of dating” 
These details are for mmm: I’m almost 32. Have never been a player. Haven’t dated seriously in more than a couple of years now. If I date one man at a time, won’t I be wasting more time than if I date several at a time? I don’t have a whole lot of years left to date/marry/have kids, here. And let me clarify something: there will be no sex with anyone I’m ‘just dating‘, so no need to worry about that.
answers:
I don’t believe in a female flirting. Blushing is as far as it gets for me.
Dating: I go out with any guy who doesn’t mention the word sex, at least once.
I only date guys who put forth some honest effort to date me. No passive dudes.
Lisa asks…
How do I start Dating Again?
I am a single mom to a 19 month old. My ex and I split before my son was born, and I have taken the single time to get to know myself and I feel like I’m ready to start dating again.
However, I am very introverted and have a difficult time meeting people. I’m not into the bar scene, I go to school in a program that is primarily women based, and I go to a small church. How do I start to meet people, and how do I start to date? Also, when (if I get a date) should I tell him about my son?
Also, what age should I be looking to date? My sister says that I should be looking for somebody my own age (I’m 21) but I would be more interested in somebody older because I think they tend to be more serious and grounded, and I don’t just want to date a bunch of men, I would like to have a solid, serious relationship. So any tips or opinions would be very much appreciated.
answers:
You could try online… And no dont date guys ur age, they usally will not like that you have a kid. Try and go to places like summer fest coming up, but remeber this, dont go out with more than 3 women, whne women go out in big groups it makes the men nervous, so they dnt approach u…and yah do mention ur son on second date and introduce ur son when you two have been dating for a month or two.
Thomas asks…
Introverted guy asking women out for a date?
I am an introverted male. Introvert does not mean shy!! If males are basically required to ask females out for a date, what are some pointers or tips for an introverted male to ask a woman out for a date?? What does a woman find attractive or interesting about an introverted male??
answers:
Come up to me and say hello, how are you? My name is so and so…….where are you from what do you do…it’ll take off from there and if you have chemistry ask her for her phone number …call her and ask her out for a date…be courteous and humouros…and girls like guys who smell good too!!!
Charles asks…
would it be harder to start dating if?
a few questions…
would it be harder for a person to start dating if they waited until their early 20s to start dating?
this is my situation because Im quite introverted.
Do you think it less likely that guys in their 20s would entertain a non-intimate relationship?
i havent experienced dating or relationships. Im 100% inexperienced, and when I finally start dating, I most likely would want a more innocent, slow and non-serious relationship.
at my age, would it be hard to find that???
and what are some tips to being noticed?
Im extremely quiet. and don’t have many friends.
My style is Plain-jane
but Im pretty and have a great figure.
what adivce would you give me
answers:
I’m a guy, and I started dating when I was 21. Most of my dates were movies, or coffee. Dating isn’t ‘going steady’ or anything. It’s hanging out with the opposite sex.
Don’t believe that ‘development’ crap. Most 14-18 year olds relationships are a bunch of bullshit anyway that end with a few tears and another relationship 3 weeks later that involves little more then texting each other and holding hands, then pressuring the girl into having sex. Dry, rinse, repeat.
Dating is simple, you don’t even have to treat it as a date, just go for a cup of coffee or something simple. Believe it or not most guys (at least me) are pretty simple; just having a girl to do something with is a big deal, not that any of us will let on to it. Most of us would sooner go out with a chick then drink beers with the same 7 guys every weekend.
Just hang out and if anything develops then let it develop.
Good luck.
Chris asks…
Is there like any rules Christians must follow when dating?
shes like super religious i guess? My christian said that then she will probably follow the “date to marriage” principle. Will this affect her decision? Christians or anyone please help me. I’m Agnostic so yeah. But I do go to church because friends go at times… If there are any rules or anything please tell me. And I’m not horny, I just really want to know her even more. Like truly, nothing sexual.
So basically she is like REALLY shy. Well I am too, but like once I know someone I am actually pretty outgoing and stuff. So I guess we’re both introverts?
I like this senior girl, but like I’m a junior. She is like 2 years older than me. She is going to school in the east coast. (I live in west coast). I have been friends with her for about like 2 years. Although she isn’t like hot, but she is like the nicest person ever and is cute which I really like. But like recently I started to like her more than a friend for some reason. I mean school is almost over already.. 
. I mean we hang out at times, so yeah im pretty chill with her. Is it weird? Tips and advice please. Please be serious.
answers:
A lot of Christians, myself included, will not date a non-christian. You may get along now, but eventually she will realize that you wll never be a Christian (maybe, that could change, you never know).
It is ok to kiss. There are very few Christian who refuse to kiss until marriage. I, however, believe that the physical relationship (such as hugging, holding hands, and kissing) is just as important as the emotional relationship. Many Christians feel the same way. But, no sex!
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Your Questions About Chemistry.com
Donald asks…
What is it with . . .?
the fad/’craze’ about Internet/On-line Dating Websites and Person(s); whether male or female, who place, post Personal Ads/’Profiles’ and/or reply/respond to Personal Ads/’Profiles’ based on both sexism and racism? ? ?
Such Internet/on-line ‘dating’ websites are as follows:
Yahoo.com Personals, EHarmony.com, Chemistry.com, Match.com, True.com, PlentyOfFish.com, 8MinuteDating.com, HurryDate.com, BigChurch.com, FriendFinder.com, AboutMe.com, DancePartner.com, Passion.com, AdultFriendFinder.com, Nasca.com, WildMatch.com, Swingers100.com, Eroticy.com etc.
answers:
These sites have been around for years, so I’d hardly call them a fad or a craze. I think they remain popular because people can meet others right from their homes, no need to dress, spend money, go out. Also, people can advertise all their good points, leave out the bad, and get potential daters to “get to know them” by writing back and forth before letting all the cats out of the bag.
As far as the sexism/racism twist, it’s just safe to advertise those politcally incorrect slants on these sites. I don’t see how a person can be called to answer for their personal preferences when they’re setting them down in one of these sites.
If someone’s shy on a personal level, these sites feel safe. You never actually have to meet someone face to face. Others just get a kick out of all the attention they get. One additional plus is that people get to meet others who aren’t local; I know of two women who had online “relationships” with guys who lived 100′s of miles away.
I have personally never visited one of these sites, happily married and whatnot, but this is why I imagine that they exist successfully.
Susan asks…
I think my mother is cheating on my dad, what should I do?
My mom borrowed my laptop last night. I went on today and found in my history Match.com and Chemistry.com. When I clicked on them I saw the profile of two men on Match and my mom’s profile(which was never signed out of) for chemistry. My parents have been fighting a lot and I never really felt my mom and I were close. I want to confront her, but if I do I do not think she would tell me the truth. I want to tell my dad, but I think I should wait until I have more information and more evidence to back up my claim before I ruin what we have as a family. But I do not know if the Match.com and the Chemistry.com is enough evidence its self. So my questions are Should I get more information before informing my dad? Or is the Match.com and the Chemistry.com do you think is enough? And should I confront my mother first before telling my dad?
answers:
I would wait for more info, and then confront her first
Ken asks…
what should i get for my first date?
i haven’t been out with a girl in 5 years so i was wondering what to get her we met on chemistry.com and we are going to meet tomorrow at a walmart and knowing that valentines day was yesterday she is a army girl and what should i wear
answers:
There’s no need to get her anything. Just give her a good time, and make her laugh. Girls love a sense of humor. That makes them more comfortable around you.
John asks…
online dating sites?
which one is better? chemistry.com or eharmony.com. please let me know of any experiences bad or good so I can decide which one to post my profile on?
thank you.
answers:
Eharmony is pretty good from what I’ve read up on. Some of my friends have tried it and said they’ve met some great people.
Mary asks…
Is it a good idea to join a dating website like e-hormony or chemistry.com?
i’m not into the whole clubbing scene. you never find anyone worth seeing again. i want to meet someone i’m going to spend the rest of my life with. advice?
answers:
Eharmony is the best site out there in my opinion. I met the woman of my dreams on that site. It takes time and you can’t expect to find someone the first week you are online, but it’s a really good way of meeting people if you’re serious about a relationship.
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Your Questions About Plentyoffish.com
Laura asks…
Plentyoffish.com dating site. anyone having trouble loging in? system seems to be down ?
what is your experience logging on. and networking>?
answers:
I met this problem too. Seems they launched a new site lovingrich.com. It’s for beautiful and rich people. I found many celebs on that site.
Mandy asks…
I was removed from plentyoffish.com and I did not violate any of their rules.?
I really like this free dating site but I can’t get back on. I did nothing wrong but I am being blocked for some reason. I deleted everything and tried to sign back in to no avail…
answers:
Did you have a picture on your profile? If not that could be one reason. If your IP is blocked I would suggest you find a new free dating site. OkCupid.com and FlirtBox.com are a good start.
Helen asks…
How to chat on plentyoffish.com?
I’m new on the site and I look on a girl’s profile w/c is online, where should I click if I want to chat w/ her?
dunno what category this should be, sorry bout’ dat xD
I check those online girls w/ ‘Im User’ on it but can’t find the link
answers:
You can only chat with her live if she has the link “IM USER” underneath her screen name. If she does not have that, then you’ll need to send a regular message.
Sharon asks…
How do I delete my profile on plentyoffish.com?
answers:
Go to the website and click on account, then you will see where you click to delete profile. Or contact customer service (its on the account page) and tell them you want to delete your profile and they will tell you how to do it.
Steven asks…
Do you think it’s embarassing to try match.com or plentyoffish.com?
I don’t have one but I’m just curious what you all think of sites like those. Do you thinkthey’re for desperate people or for busy people?
answers:
It’s pretty common these days.
It’s only embarrassing if you’re like this guy I know , who’s on 5 different sites (yahoo, match, jdate, American singles, true) and has been on all of them for more than 4 years.
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Your Questions About Cougar Dating Site
Ken asks…
Advice on older women ? ( Cougar ) Older women help !!?
Hi, how are you doing? I would really appreciate if you read thru my story and maybe give me a advice that would better advance my chances with this women. Let me first tell you little about myself and then I will lay things out for u so you can make a better determination and give me a better advice. I’m 25 yrs, I work as a pharm tech, I live near Detroit Area. I have my own everything I usually take good care of myself, Look always fresh, I dress sharp and stay busy with myself to look my best. One thing I find myself always to like and even into “OLDER WOMEN”.
I’m going tale you the story now like 2 years ago, I was on a online dating site, I found this one lady (52 Years old) that I looked at her pics (SIMPLE PICS) and I paused for like 30 sec. I started to chat with her we started chatting and just general things then as the chatting went on thru the weeks and even the month I told her how I like her presence, her being around, her elegance… etc. thats all we still online after these 6 months I asked for her number , she gave me her number so I called like 2-3 weeks after I usually call her once every 10 days as a average at the most 4 times a month.
So I called her the first time after those 6 months (from chatting online) and she was nice, I liked talking to her, she tells me about her life with her daughter, son , that she moved recently to this new appt, what she cooked , the weather how she hates the cold and likes it when its sunny …etc,
I give her a call every like 10 days sometimes she calls me back and sometimes she calls me on her own but u know not too often . So as we talked I asked her out to a nice restaurant and we agreed on a day after work, we went to this first time out , we had to wait for avi seats so we chatted a lil in the waiting room, after that we ordered the food , ate, and had my vodka and she ordered 2 glasses of wine. As we were eating we were talking and I told her how its long past due for us to get together how, she was saying how she thinks I take good care of her I smile and pay her attention and honestly I love to pay her attention . BUT not all over her don’t get me wrong but always treated like a lady, I know that she noticed that because she told me it. After we ate I gave her a ride to her daughter’s houseas she was about to exit my car she gives me a hug , good night and she puts her two fingers on her lips and she tells me kiss and she smiles it happened that we kissed but just kissed meaning firmly (on the lips ).
After this date we got in touch with each other , I didn’t change anything in any manner I kept on calling as often as I call once every 10 days , check on her , joke with her , compliment her even tell her how pleased I was to have her around, SO its been over 9 months since we went out on this date , But thru these 9 months nothing has changed I call her /she calls we talk I try to set something up, she is somehow busy with work and just her life. So I have known this lady for a total of 2 years @ LEAST and still I can’t advance things with her .
HERE ARE MY FOLLOWING QUESTION:
How do u think I should approach this women ? ( I REALLY TRIED, Still calling her for two years,asked her out , went out she still don’t get it )
How do I take it to the next level ? ( BEEN TWO YEARS I REALLY TRIED )
How can I get her to open up and talk to me ? (she wont tell me about her romance life , passion, sexual, intimate, cuddly thing )
How can I let her know what I really want only her and I desire her age ?
How can I let her know that I like her ?
Do you think she knows that I like her ?
How can I find out if she likes/dislike age thing ? if it’s a issue/ not issue for here ?? ? ?
I been talking with this women for two years just tell me why she has been talking to me for this long ? ( I believe has to be a reason )
I mean what is it that yet I didn’t try or do ?
Sorry to make u read all this but really Look its complicated
answers:
Ok so u started calling her every 10 days from the beginning & as time went by you still kept to this strict calling every 10 days thing, did you even call her the next day after the date to tell her you enjoyed the date? Well I really think you should call her much more often in fact ALMOST daily really just call her whenever u want to but not more than twice a day ON AVERAGE cos u can miss a day or two& the only best way to find out if she’s interested & the truth about things is to be honest with her, talk to her about ALL the things you mentioned above, from what you wrote maybe she’s interested but thinks your not or is sick of you only calling her every 10 days-not even a call once a week as the relationship advanced- if I was her I may think u have other woman or better more important things to do. Just call her & tell her you want to see her to talk if you cant get a date cos she’s putting it off then tell her over the phone everything from the fact u only called every 10 days cos ***** I assume ur worried u’ll look too keen ? & ask her how she feels about the age difference & approach all these subjects with sensitivity 4 lack of a better word.
The worse that can happen is u find out she’s not interested. Ever wondered if she’s married & hiding it from u? Looking 4 a companion but wont sleep with him till it’s the right man? With all this lack of communication & honesty (straight forwardness) there could be any amount of things you’d be surprised to know about her besides she cooks has 2 kids & likes sunny days, those are just general things. Think about all I wrote although it is also all over the place.
William asks…
Advice on older women ? ( Cougar )?
Hi, how are you doing? I would really appreciate if you read thru my story and maybe give me a advice that would better advance my chances with this women. Let me first tell you little about myself and then I will lay things out for u so you can make a better determination and give me a better advice. I’m 25 yrs, I work as a pharm tech, I live near Detroit Area. I have my own everything I usually take good care of myself, Look always fresh, I dress sharp and stay busy with myself to look my best. One thing I find myself always to like and even into “OLDER WOMEN”.
I’m going tale you the story now like 2 years ago, I was on a online dating site, I found this one lady (52 Years old) that I looked at her pics (SIMPLE PICS) and I paused for like 30 sec. I started to chat with her we started chatting and just general things then as the chatting went on thru the weeks and even the month I told her how I like her presence, her being around, her elegance… etc. thats all we still online after these 6 months I asked for her number , she gave me her number so I called like 2-3 weeks after I usually call her once every 10 days as a average at the most 4 times a month.
So I called her the first time after those 6 months (from chatting online) and she was nice, I liked talking to her, she tells me about her life with her daughter, son , that she moved recently to this new appt, what she cooked , the weather how she hates the cold and likes it when its sunny …etc,
I give her a call every like 10 days sometimes she calls me back and sometimes she calls me on her own but u know not too often . So as we talked I asked her out to a nice restaurant and we agreed on a day after work, we went to this first time out , we had to wait for avi seats so we chatted a lil in the waiting room, after that we ordered the food , ate, and had my vodka and she ordered 2 glasses of wine. As we were eating we were talking and I told her how its long past due for us to get together how, she was saying how she thinks I take good care of her I smile and pay her attention and honestly I love to pay her attention . BUT not all over her don’t get me wrong but always treated like a lady, I know that she noticed that because she told me it. After we ate I gave her a ride to her daughter’s houseas she was about to exit my car she gives me a hug , good night and she puts her two fingers on her lips and she tells me kiss and she smiles it happened that we kissed but just kissed meaning firmly (on the lips ).
After this date we got in touch with each other , I didn’t change anything in any manner I kept on calling as often as I call once every 10 days , check on her , joke with her , compliment her even tell her how pleased I was to have her around, SO its been over 9 months since we went out on this date , But thru these 9 months nothing has changed I call her /she calls we talk I try to set something up, she is somehow busy with work and just her life. So I have known this lady for a total of 2 years @ LEAST and still I can’t advance things with her .
HERE ARE MY FOLLOWING QUESTION:
How do u think I should approach this women ? ( I REALLY TRIED, Still calling her for two years,asked her out , went out she still don’t get it )
How do I take it to the next level ? ( BEEN TWO YEARS I REALLY TRIED )
How can I get her to open up and talk to me ? (she wont tell me about her romance life , passion, sexual, intimate, cuddly thing )
How can I let her know what I really want only her and I desire her age ?
How can I let her know that I like her ?
Do you think she knows that I like her ?
How can I find out if she likes/dislike age thing ? if it’s a issue/ not issue for here ?? ? ?
I been talking with this women for two years just tell me why she has been talking to me for this long ? ( I believe has to be a reason )
I mean what is it that yet I didn’t try or do ?
Sorry to make u read all this but really Look its complicated
answers:
Be persistent in a gentlemanly way. Time to spill it out on the table. Let her know before its too late.
Maria asks…
im 18 and wondering if a dating website can help?
hey im just lookin to get some poon tang. if i sign up to a dating website, im not a great looking guy but i am definitely average or at least good enough in most girls standards. so ya think i can land any cougars or random sluts? anyone no how successful these sites are?
answers:
.Try adult friend finder….commonly used for sex hook ups. Dating sites are for dating kid, not “poon tang”.
No wonder you need help.
Michael asks…
Why do older women-younger men dating sites have millions of members?
www.gocougar.com
^^ theres like 18-20 yr old guys on there saying that theyre interested in 40 or 50 yr old women :O
i’m not old enough to be a cougar yet but that made me happy because i know i’ll still be wanted when im older…. i used to be so scared of aging (and i’m not even 18 yet ) but honestly, i think older women have it better than older men, because i wouldn’t date an old guy unless he was loaded but i know lots of guys my age are into milfs and cougars .
answers:
@GuitarVirgin, Older men are only better to someone new at sex…like girls 18-20. Older men SUCK in bed. Theyt suck because
A) They’re out of shape-even the 30 year olds are bloated looking. Out of shape means low stamina (for anything, not just sex). Couple that with being older and you’ve got poor sex.
B) They want to LEAD everything and take control, even in bed, and not try new things, and it’s boring after awhile. Younger men give and like to receive as well.
C) Older men have horrible bodies, man-breasts, stomachs, flabby legs. It’s hard to get excited about sex with people who look like that, honestly.
To the other responder who said at 50 you won’t want a guy 18-20, you’re right. It’s too young. What we want in a man is a Homer Simpson lookalike that all women crave (and have). I’m young and I see what you have: nothing in bed but a man’s wallet to make love to. Sorry to sound rude.
Also someone here said younger guys are using older women for sex? Let me guess, you think older men are IN LOVE with the young girls they date and not using them for sex at all. Please. Also, young girls can marry older guys because by the time young girls get those men, the men have gone from Zac Efron and Edward Cullen to Peter Griffin from the Family Guy cartoon, along with Homer Simpson. So BELIEVE me, those girls are getting what’s left over and a few dollars. They can have older men IMO.
Paul asks…
Why are there so many Japanese cougars?
Before anyone tries to brush my question aside as a sweeping generalisation I’ve done some pretty thorough “research” (lol) on dating sites and in real life, and have noticed these a lot of japanese women around the age of 40 looking for men around half their age, or at least 10 years younger. I haven’t noticed the same thing with chinese, korean, or any other asian women. Is this just like one of those odd japanese fetishes?
answers:
I’m japanese woman…so unpleasant..
Americans to find and post always odd Japanese fetish.*sigh*
BUT Most Japanese dont know a odd fetish….
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Your Questions About Matchmaking Sites
Ruth asks…
what are some sites for matchmaking like for age of empires?
online computer gaming.
answers:
The easiest way to play Age of Empires online is for you to use GameRanger.
GameRanger is a multiplayer online gaming service supporting over 600 games (including Age of Empires) that lets you play online in a friendly community without the hassles of network connection problems.
Thousands of people play Age of Empires online on GameRanger every day (of all skill levels), so you should have no problem finding a game. It’s THE most popular place to play because of its ease of use.
Mark asks…
What according to you is better: a dating site or a matchmaking site?
answers:
I think a dating site is better than matchmaking site as in a dating site you can interact with a person, judge your compatibility with him or her and then can decide that you can spend your life with him or her or not but a matchmaking sites estimates that a person is compatible to you and you marry that person. Dating sites gives you full freedom to leave a person if you find him non compatible even after a year but matchmaking sites help you meet a person and get married and non compatibility can only lead to a divorce.
Steven asks…
Can somebody pleast introduce me a special matchmaking website?
I chat a lot online, my buddies said that i have no life, and that’s true. I’m kinda fed up by those stupid normal matchmaking sites. I know people like me might have problems finding a GF, so what? That’s why i’m looking for a site that is not filled with those stupid strong-minded chicks, if possible, i would like to pay for our relationship, and about the money, i don’t really think that’s an issue.
answers:
Eharmony.com might help you!!
Daniel asks…
online matchmaking? Does any of the site work or any good?
So has anyone really had any success with sites like eHarmony and other matchmaking sites?
Ill admit ive tried it and so far it hasnt gone well
answers:
The sites are not the problem; the problem is the kind of people you meet there; most of them just look for fun, so it’s really hard to make it work:(
Donna asks…
What is a good free adult matchmaking site?
ive tried adultfriendfinder.com and sexsearch.com, i was hoping for a site thats a lil more effective than those
answers:
I’m not sure there are “free” adult matchmaking sites… Well not with any sizable population. Maybe you want to try meeting people in chat rooms like http://www.321sexchat.com and http://www.adultchat.co those two are free.
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Your Questions About Online Dating Sites
Linda asks…
Where can i find the sites that actually work for Dating online?
I read somewhere that about 8% of all marriages were from online dating sites. Their popularity seems to be growing. Fad or Fake?
answers:
If you are looking for the best online dating site in internet, i recommend this site
http://Best-Online-Dating-Site.net
Ruth asks…
What is your honest opinion about online dating sites?
Do you think the chances of finding a relationship on dating sites are slim? Do you think people just go on them to hookup? I was on one and I felt like every guy I talked to just wanted sex. Is it just better to avoid online dating all together?
answers:
Well I think it’s about as good as any other medium for dating and meeting people, but you do have to be open minded and be aware. In my opninion, a lot of people are online because they need to be, and a lot of people are online because they want something on the side. But then again, nobody marries the first person they meet in a bar either, so you’d just have to be patient if you want to keep going with it.
Susan asks…
How can I block my mom from accessing online dating sites?
My mom keeps making profiles on online dating sites and my dad is getting angry. I already tried some programs to block her, but she keeps uninstalling them. Does anyone know anything I could put on that she couldn’t remove. Also, if it would allow me to specifically specify the sites to block like Match.com, EHarmony, Fling.com, etc. Thanks.
answers:
Talk with her is the best solution. If you do this by technical, she will be able to access them via other computers too. If she doesn’t want to join online dating herself, that would be the best solution.
John asks…
Online dating sites safe or not and are these sites only for people that want to get married?
I’ve been thinking about giving one of those popular online dating sites a try, but I’m a little sceptical about how safe they are, and I’m also wondering if you can only use these sites if your trying to get married, I mean what if your just interested in a posible committed relationship and your not in a hurry to get married you just want to relax and see where things go, is that allowed on those sites your not?
answers:
My friend Mike who was tired of finding someone through the regular dating scene decided to try and sign up for one of those major dating sites. He filled out all this info for an hour or so and then they wanted him to pay for a subscription. Talk about a waste of time. You may be able to find what you are looking for here and it is absolutely free! I hope this helps!
Sandy asks…
How to make money with online dating sites?
Somebody has some good information on how to make money with online dating sites?
answers:
You have to sign up as an affiliate, and then you get people to join, and they would have to sign up under your affiliate link, and then you get a commission every month when they pay their membership fee.
If you go to the very bottom of the dating site, it will either say “affiliates” or “join us” or “partner with us”, click on that and it will tell you what you need to do.
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